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The Masculine Mystique and Male Depression: Embracing Your Vocation of Destiny
There is something amiss with men today, and I’m still trying to figure it out. I’ve been working with men, and the women who love them, for more than 40 years. Actually, I’ve been on a quest to...
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The Crisis Enters Year Five: Are We Ready to Address the Real Problem?
According to Richard D. Wolff, Professor of Economics Emeritus, University of Massachusetts, Amherst and Visiting Professor in the Graduate Program in International Affairs of the New School...
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Jekyll and Hyde, Irritable Males, and Attachment Love: What Men, and the...
Before I wrote my book, The Irritable Male Syndrome, I thought I might call it The Jekyll and Hyde Syndrome, since men often seem to change rapidly from “Mr. Nice to Mr. Mean.” The book Dr. Jekyll...
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Why Is My Husband Depressed and How Do I Help Him?
What we call depression has likely been around before recorded history and has been recognized for thousands of years. Aretaeus of Cappadocia (circa 81-138 AD) is credited with the first clinical...
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From Here to Eternity: Stopping Male Stress and the Epidemic of Suicides
I have a personal, as well as professional, interest in male depression and suicide. It began with my father who was born in Jacksonville, Florida December 17, 1906. He was one of eight children...
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Why Are Men So Angry?
“Last month a man came home from work with my husband’s face but he did not act at all like the man I married,” says Marie, a 42 year-old wife and mother of three. “I’ve known this man for 30 years,...
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Why Is My Husband So Angry?
Although anger has a negative impact on men, I learned that it is often the women and children who suffer the most. “Recently, he has begun venting, to anyone who will listen, about how horrible we...
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Male Menopause: How Women Can Deal with His Anger
Dear Dr. Jed, I read your book and I believe my husband is suffering from male menopause. He’s angry all the time and blames me for everything that is wrong. He calls me names, yells at me, looks at...
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The 5 Hidden Reasons Men Become Violent and What We Can Do to Make the World...
Each time there is another outbreak of violence we focus our attention on things like gun control, treatment for mental illness, and how video-games, the movies, and the media contribute to the...
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Remembering the Newtown Killings: We Can Choose Love
Today is December 14th. As I reflect on life as we approach the darkest day of the year I think about the killings in Newtown, Connecticut a year ago today. 20 year-old Adam Lanza first killed his...
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How to Love an Angry Man: Understanding and Helping Your Partner
We all get angry at times. When we feel we’re threatened we react with anger. But we know people who get overly angry or their anger causes problems with their relationships at home or at work. I was...
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How to Love an Angry Man: Part 2 – Dealing with Anger vs. Rage
Dear Dr. Jed, I’m worried about my husband. He’s angry all the time and blames me for everything that is wrong. He calls me names, yells at me, looks at me with such hatred, I want to disappear. He’s...
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How to Love an Angry Man: Part 3 – Help Him by Helping Yourself
I’ve been writing about angry men for some time now. That’s because I recognized how destructive anger can be in our relationships, but also how common it is. In my book, Stress Relief for Men: How to...
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How to Love an Angry Man Part 4: Understanding Male Shame, Depression, and...
For most of my life I haven’t understood my anger or why it was so often directed at the women in my life. I’ve been married three times. My first marriage lasted 10 years and ended in an acrimonious...
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Sports, Domestic Violence, and the State of the World: What Can We Learn?
The media is full of stories about sports and domestic violence. We were sickened by video showing Baltimore Ravens superstar Ray Rice knocking out his then-fiancée and dragging her out of a Las Vegas...
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6 Ways to Prevent Irritable Male Syndrome from Ruining Valentine’s Day (and...
The true story of “Valentine’s Day” may tell us more about anger, irritability and violence than about candy, hearts, and flowers. Back in 269 AD a good priest named Valentine ran afoul of the Roman...
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How to Live with An Angry Man and What To Do If He Becomes President
My wife should probably write this article, but she’s busy living her life and glad that the angry man she has been living with for 36 years has done enough healing that he can write about it. The...
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Why Donald Trump’s Presidency Will, Surprisingly, Be the World’s Greatest Gift
In the run-up to the election, someone said that if Hillary Clinton was elected, we would get a “wolf in sheep’s clothing.” We would celebrate a woman being the first president and would appreciate her...
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Why Is My Husband So Mean to Me?
For more than 40 years I have been helping men and the women who love them. In recent years, more and more women are contacting me who are concerned about their husband’s anger and how its impacting...
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How to Help an Angry Man: And Stop the Fights That Harm Your Marriage
I’ve been helping men and the women who love them for more than 40 years. When I ask men what’s most important to them in their relationships, I hear many variations on a simple response. Men want more...
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